About This Book
Reach for this book when you notice your child is performing for your approval rather than their own joy, or if they seem burdened by a family legacy or high expectations. While Nigel comes from a long line of champion swimmers, he finds the pressure of competition paralyzing. This gentle story explores the difference between loving an activity and loving the win, providing a safe space to discuss performance anxiety and the fear of disappointing loved ones. Ideal for children ages 3 to 7, this story models how to communicate personal boundaries with honesty and grace. It is particularly helpful for families with high-achieving siblings or parents who are heavily involved in youth sports. Ultimately, it reassures children that their value is found in who they are and what they truly love, not in the trophies they collect.
