
Reach for this book when your daughter is navigating the bruising transition of middle school, where old friendships are shifting and she feels suddenly uncomfortable in her own skin. It is a deeply honest look at Emi-Lou, a girl in Hawaii who feels like a 'nobody' as she watches her best friend, Von, change in ways she cannot follow. The story tackles the raw ache of feeling left behind, the confusion of body image, and the search for a self-defined identity when you do not fit the popular mold. Because it deals with the complexities of puberty, sexuality, and self-worth with unflinching realism, it is best suited for older middle schoolers (ages 12-15). Parents will appreciate how it validates the intense loneliness of the 'in-between' years while offering a path toward self-acceptance that does not rely on peer approval. It is a powerful tool for opening conversations about what it means to be a loyal friend to others and, more importantly, to oneself.
Explores first crushes and questions surrounding a friend's changing sexual identity.
Deals with intense feelings of self-loathing, loneliness, and friend abandonment.
The book deals directly and realistically with body shaming and bullying. It also touches on family abandonment. The approach is secular and gritty, reflecting the authentic voice of a young teen. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly 'happy,' as Emi-Lou finds internal peace rather than a magical fix to her external problems.
A 13-year-old who feels 'plain' or 'invisible' and is struggling with a best friend who is suddenly moving into a different social or developmental tier.
There are frank depictions of bullying and adolescent cruelty that may be hard to read. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say 'I hate how I look' or seeing their child being excluded by a longtime friend group.
A 12-year-old will focus on the friendship drama and school politics. A 15-year-old will better grasp the complex family dynamics between Emi-Lou, her mother, and her grandmother, and how these dynamics are shaped by their cultural context.
Yamanaka’s use of Hawaiian Pidgin and the specific cultural landscape of Hawaii provides a unique, textured backdrop that sets this apart from standard mainland coming-of-age stories. """
Emi-Lou is a Japanese-American girl living in Hawaii, struggling with her self-image and her place in the social hierarchy of middle school. Her world is upended when her best friend, Von, starts losing weight, joins the track team, and begins exploring her sexuality. As Von moves into a different social circle, Emi-Lou is forced to confront her own insecurities, her relationship with her mother and grandmother, and her burgeoning feelings for a boy named Baboo. The story follows her journey from self-loathing to a tentative but real sense of self-worth.
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