
Reach for this book when your child is facing a major disappointment or when a long awaited plan is suddenly derailed by factors outside of your control. My Side of the Car tells the story of Sadie and her father, whose trip to the zoo has been cancelled multiple times for various reasons. When they finally set off, rain begins to fall. While her father sees a reason to turn back, Sadie uses her incredible imagination and optimistic persistence to insist that it is perfectly sunny on her side of the vehicle. This sweet story perfectly captures the tension between adult logic and a child's deep emotional investment in a special event. It offers parents a gentle way to talk about disappointment, the power of positive thinking, and the beauty of a father-daughter bond. At its heart, the book is a masterclass in how children use creativity to cope with the frustrations of reality, making it a perfect read for ages 4 to 8.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis is a secular, contemporary story. There are no heavy sensitive topics like death or trauma. It deals purely with the everyday emotional weight of disappointment and the frustration of parental boundaries.
An elementary student who feels things deeply and has a hard time 'pivoting' when a promise is broken or a plan changes. It is especially good for a child who uses fantasy or denial as a primary coping mechanism.
No specific preparation is needed. The book is very accessible and can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss the difference between 'lying' and 'hoping' as it pertains to Sadie's claims about the weather. A parent might reach for this after their child has had a 'meltdown' or shown stubbornness regarding a cancelled event or a change in routine.
Younger children (4-5) will take Sadie's 'sunshine' literally and enjoy the humor of her insistence. Older children (7-8) will recognize her internal struggle with disappointment and appreciate the irony of the situation.
Unlike many books that force a child to simply 'accept' disappointment, this book honors the child's perspective by showing a father who eventually enters his daughter's world, rather than just forcing her into his.
Sadie and her dad have had the worst luck trying to get to the zoo. Something always goes wrong: a flat tire, a cold, or a lost set of keys. When they finally get in the car and head toward the animals, dark clouds appear. Her father sees rain, but Sadie, desperate for the trip to happen, refuses to acknowledge it. She claims it is sunny on her side of the car. The story follows their drive as Sadie tries to will the weather to cooperate through sheer optimism and imagination.
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