
Reach for this book when your child feels like their place in the family has been eclipsed by a new sibling or a change in routine. It is an ideal choice for the child who has expressed a desire to run away or who seems to be 'testing' whether they are still wanted and missed by their parents. The story follows Emily, who returns home after a brief attempt at running away, only to find her father pretending not to recognize her. This leads to a playful, imaginative game where the father 'interviews' the new girl to see if she can possibly be as wonderful as the Emily he lost. Through this gentle roleplay, the father mirrors Emily's own feelings of displacement back to her in a safe, humorous way. It is a deeply comforting read for children ages 3 to 7, reinforcing that their unique identity is irreplaceable. Parents will appreciate how the story models a playful approach to conflict resolution and emotional repair without relying on lectures or discipline.
The book deals with running away from home, but it is handled in a secular, metaphorical, and highly safe manner. The 'running away' is a toddler-style excursion to the yard, and the resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on emotional security rather than the logistics of safety.
An older sibling (ages 4-6) who is struggling with 'middle child syndrome' or the arrival of a new baby, feeling as though they have been replaced and needing a parent to explicitly vocalize why they are special.
This book can be read cold. The parent should be prepared to use different voices for the 'interrogator' father and the 'stranger' Emily to help the child follow the roleplay. A parent might reach for this after a child has said something like 'You don't love me anymore' or 'I'm going to go live somewhere else' during a tantrum or a period of sibling jealousy.
A 3-year-old will enjoy the literal hide-and-seek elements and the reassurance of the hug at the end. A 7-year-old will appreciate the sophisticated irony of the father's pretend ignorance and the emotional complexity of 'proving' one's identity.
Unlike many 'new sibling' books that focus on the baby, this book focuses entirely on the parent-child bond and uses play therapy techniques (roleplay and mirroring) to resolve a child's internal crisis.
After feeling frustrated with her family, Emily runs away but quickly returns to her backyard. Her father, spotting her, decides to play along with her dramatic exit. He pretends she is a stranger and asks her questions about where the 'real' Emily might be. Emily must then describe her own best qualities and favorite things to convince him that she belongs there. It ends with a warm reconciliation and a shared understanding of her place in the home.
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