
Reach for this book when your child seems to be forging their own path or expressing a personal style that feels completely different from yours. It is a perfect choice for children who feel like the odd one out in a family of big, bold personalities or those who are just beginning to assert their individual preferences. The story follows Simon, whose mom is obsessed with spots and whose dad is obsessed with stripes. From their clothes to their home decor, everything they choose reflects their patterns. Simon, however, prefers something else entirely: gray. This absurdist, high-energy tale celebrates the joy of being different while emphasizing that a family can still be a cohesive, loving unit even when everyone likes different things. It is an excellent tool for building self-confidence and validating a child's unique identity within the family circle.
The book is entirely secular and lighthearted. It touches on identity and the feeling of being an outsider in a metaphorical, visual way. There are no heavy themes, and the resolution is joyful and affirming.
A preschooler or early elementary student who has a very specific hobby or aesthetic that doesn't match their parents. It is especially great for a 'quiet' child in a 'loud' family.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to point out the hidden patterns in Nick Sharratt's detailed, bold illustrations, as much of the humor is visual. A parent might choose this after their child insists on wearing an outfit that clashes with the family's style or when a child expresses feeling like they don't 'fit in' with their siblings or parents.
For a 3-year-old, this is a fun book about patterns and animals. For a 6 or 7-year-old, the subtext of individual identity and 'standing your ground' against social or familial pressure becomes more apparent.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books that focus on a struggle or bullying, this book treats Simon's difference as a humorous fact of life. The parents aren't trying to change him; they are just enthusiastically being themselves, which provides a refreshing model of a family that allows for individual expression without conflict.
Simon lives in a world of visual extremes. His mother is a 'spot person,' covering herself and her environment in polka dots. His father is a 'stripe person,' preferring lines on everything from his suits to his breakfast. Simon, however, does not care for either, choosing to wear plain gray. The family takes a trip to the zoo, where the parents admire the leopards and tigers, but Simon finds his true passion in a different animal altogether: the elephant. This leads to a final reveal of Simon's own patterned bedroom which is neither spotted nor striped.
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