
Reach for this book when your child comes home feeling replaced by a new friend at school or is struggling with the tricky math of a three person friendship. It captures that stinging moment when a best friend finds someone new to play with, leaving your little one feeling like an outsider in their own social circle. Through the eyes of the spirited Lola, the story validates the very real feelings of jealousy and loneliness that occur when childhood loyalties shift. While the tone is light and humorous, it provides a crucial mirror for children navigating the delicate balance of sharing friends. It is an ideal choice for preschoolers and early elementary students who are learning that a best friend can have other friends without it being an ending to their own special bond. It offers a gentle way to talk about social anxiety and the resilience needed to branch out when things feel uncertain.
The book deals with social exclusion and jealousy. The approach is direct but secular and grounded in everyday school life. The resolution is realistic: Lola accepts the new dynamic and the trio finds a way to coexist, though the feeling of 'specialness' is recalibrated.
An imaginative 5 or 6 year old who is highly possessive of their peers or a child who has recently experienced a 'break up' with a primary playmate at school.
No advance reading required. The book can be read cold. Parents should be ready to discuss the difference between 'replacement' and 'addition' in friendships. A parent might see their child sitting alone at pickup while their best friend runs off with someone else, or hear their child say, 'Lotta doesn't like me anymore.'
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the sadness of Lola being alone. Older children (6-7) will recognize the social nuances of the 'new kid' dynamic and Lola's internal struggle with jealousy.
Lauren Child's signature collage style and Lola's distinct, quirky voice make a stressful social situation feel manageable and funny rather than tragic.
Lola and Lotta are inseparable until a new student, Evie, enters the scene. Lotta begins spending all her time with Evie, participating in activities they used to do only with Lola. Lola feels displaced and jealous, eventually finding comfort in her brother Charlie's advice and realizing that friendship isn't a zero sum game.
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