
Reach for this book when your child is feeling 'friendship friction' due to a string of successes while their best friend is struggling. It is a perfect fit for children navigating the guilt of doing well or the sting of being left behind by a long-distance friend's good fortune. The story follows Molly as she tries to make sense of her sudden luck and her pen pal Olive's misfortunes through a series of letters, emails, and alternating perspectives. At its heart, this is a story about the complex emotional labor of maintaining a long-distance bond. It explores how envy can creep into even the best friendships and how honesty is the only way to clear the air. Written for the 8 to 12 age range, it provides a relatable, low-stakes environment to discuss social comparison and the importance of supporting friends through their low points even when you are riding high.
Feelings of isolation and the fear of losing a best friend.
The book handles interpersonal envy and feelings of inadequacy in a secular, direct way. There are no heavy traumas; the focus is entirely on the realistic, everyday sting of social comparison and the guilt of being the 'lucky' one.
An elementary schooler who is sensitive to the 'fairness' of life or a child who has recently moved away from a best friend and is struggling to stay connected as their lives change.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to discuss the difference between 'luck' and 'effort' as they read along. A child complaining that 'it's not fair' that a friend got something they didn't, or a child hiding their own successes because they are afraid of making a friend jealous.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the 'magic' mystery and the fun of the different letter formats. Older readers (10-12) will better grasp the nuance of the 'unbalanced' friendship and the social anxiety Molly feels.
Its unique strength lies in the epistolary format. By showing the 'edited' versions of their lives in letters versus the 'real' internal feelings in the prose chapters, it teaches kids about the performative nature of communication.
Molly and Olive are cross-country pen pals whose lives have suddenly diverged. Molly is experiencing a series of lucky breaks (finding money, winning contests) while Olive is facing a string of bad luck. Molly becomes convinced that magic is responsible for 'stealing' Olive's luck and giving it to her. The narrative uses a multi-format approach, including traditional prose, emails, and letters, to show both sides of the emotional distance growing between them.
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