
A parent should reach for this book when their child is resisting a new adult entering the family circle, particularly a prospective step-parent. Set in a 1940s Louisiana mill town, the story follows Jolene as she navigates the jealousy and fear that arise when a man named Leroy begins courting her mother. It is an ideal choice for children who feel that a new relationship might threaten their special bond with a single parent. The book masterfully captures the complex emotions of a young girl who uses 'bad' behavior as a shield to protect her heart. While the historical setting provides a rich backdrop of African American life in the rural South, the emotional core is universal. Parents will find it a gentle tool for opening conversations about change, the difference between 'replacement' and 'addition,' and the patience required to build trust in a blended family.
The book deals with the absence of a father (deceased) and the introduction of a new partner. The approach is realistic and secular, rooted in the social norms of the 1940s South. The resolution is hopeful and grounded, showing that acceptance is a process rather than an overnight switch. The book subtly depicts the racial inequalities present in the 1940s South. Parents should be prepared to discuss these instances of inequality and the history of racism with their children.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn 8 to 10 year old who is acting out or becoming withdrawn because their single parent has started dating. It is perfect for a child who needs to see that their anger is a normal part of grieving the 'old way' of family life.
Read cold. A parent might choose this after their child has been intentionally rude or 'difficult' toward a new partner, or if the child has expressed fear that the parent doesn't love them as much anymore.
Younger readers (ages 7-8) will focus on Jolene's mischievous attempts to thwart Leroy. Older readers (9-12) will better grasp the nuance of her grief for her late father and her fear of displacement.
Unlike many 'new step-parent' books that feel clinical or modern, this uses historical fiction to create a cozy, safe distance for children to examine their own very modern feelings. ```
In 1940s Louisiana, young Jolene lives a quiet life with her mother and grandfather until Leroy, a local logger, begins courting her mom. Feeling her world is being invaded, Jolene treats Leroy with open hostility, determined to drive him away. However, Leroy's consistent kindness and a meaningful gesture involving a special pair of shoes eventually help Jolene realize that loving a step-parent doesn't mean losing her mother.
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