
Reach for this book when your child is starting to notice social hierarchies at school or if your family is navigating a grandparent's changing health. It is a perfect choice for the sixth grader who feels like they do not quite fit in with their wealthier peers or who is struggling with the frustration of adults keeping secrets about family challenges. Merci Suarez is a relatable, headstrong girl balancing her scholarship requirements at a posh private school with her deep roots in her multigenerational Cuban American home. The story beautifully explores the 'gears' of growing up: from the shift in middle school friendships and the sting of mean-girl dynamics to the quiet heartbreak of seeing a beloved grandfather, Lolo, lose his memory to Alzheimer's. It is age-appropriate for readers 9 to 12, offering a realistic but ultimately warm look at how family loyalty and self-worth can anchor a child through seasons of unpredictable change.
Depicts the progressive memory loss and behavioral changes of a grandfather with Alzheimer's.
The book deals directly and realistically with Alzheimer's disease and aging. The approach is secular and focuses on the emotional toll on the family. It also addresses socioeconomic disparity and subtle bullying. The resolution is realistic: Lolo does not get better, but Merci learns how to accept the new reality and advocate for herself.
A 10 to 12-year-old child who feels the weight of family responsibility or who is struggling to navigate a friendship group where they feel excluded due to socioeconomic differences.
Read cold, but be prepared to discuss what Alzheimer's is if your child has questions. There are scenes of Lolo's confusion that might be upsetting to children very close to their own grandparents. A child has expressed anger that they aren't being told the full truth about a family member's illness.
Younger readers will focus on the humor of the family life and the school rivalries. Older readers will resonate with the frustration of being treated like a child by parents and the nuance of the socioeconomic divide.
Unlike many 'sick relative' books, this isn't a melodrama. It is a vibrant, funny, and culturally rich story where the illness is just one part of a complex, lived-in world. ```
Merci Suarez is a scholarship student at Seaward Pines Academy in Florida. She lives in a multigenerational compound with her extended Cuban American family. As she starts sixth grade, she faces the social challenges of a wealthy peer group and a difficult classmate, Edna Santos. Simultaneously, she notices her grandfather, Lolo, is becoming forgetful and irritable. While her parents try to shield her from the truth, Merci eventually discovers he has Alzheimer's disease, forcing her to find a new way to connect with him while finding her own voice at school.
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