
Reach for this book when your child starts coming home with stories about a new 'perfect' student who seems to be doing everything better than they are. It is a relatable and humorous look at the social upheaval that occurs when a new personality enters an established friend group, sparking feelings of inadequacy and competitive jealousy. Through Mary Margaret's spirited but flawed reactions, children see their own complicated feelings validated. As Mary Margaret faces off against the talented and seemingly flawless Maya, the story explores themes of self-worth and the realization that 'matching' someone doesn't mean being their carbon copy. It is a gentle, realistic school story for ages 7 to 10 that provides a roadmap for moving from resentment to genuine connection without losing one's own identity.
The book deals with social dynamics and self-esteem in a secular, direct manner. The resolution is realistic, focusing on personal growth and the cooling of tensions rather than a magical transformation of circumstances.
An elementary student (3rd or 4th grade) who is feeling 'second best.' This is for the child who is naturally competitive and is currently struggling with the arrival of a peer who threatens their perceived social standing or 'top' status in a specific hobby.
Read cold. The behavior of the protagonist is intentionally imperfect, so be prepared to discuss Mary Margaret's less-than-kind choices as a learning opportunity rather than a model of perfect behavior. A parent might see their child becoming uncharacteristically mean-spirited or boastful, or conversely, becoming withdrawn and self-critical because a friend or classmate is achieving more success.
Younger readers (7-8) will focus on the humor of the situations and the 'unfairness' Mary Margaret feels. Older readers (9-10) will better grasp the nuance of Mary Margaret's internal insecurity and the subtle social pressure of being the 'new kid' from Maya's perspective.
Unlike many 'new friend' books that focus on bullying, this book focuses on the internal experience of the 'incumbent' friend who feels threatened. It captures the specific, prickly feeling of being 'matched' by someone else.
Mary Margaret is used to being the center of her world until Maya moves in across the street and joins her class. Maya is talented, kind, and seems to excel at everything Mary Margaret takes pride in, from soccer to schoolwork. The plot follows Mary Margaret's internal and external struggle to maintain her status, leading to various competitive mishaps before she realizes that friendship is more rewarding than rivalry.
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