
Reach for this book when your child feels like a fish out of water in a new activity or struggles with an identity that doesn't fit traditional molds. It is particularly helpful for kids who push back against gender stereotypes or feel anxious about being forced into a role that feels 'fake' to them. The story follows Marty, a bug-loving tomboy who is horrified to be cast as a princess in her third-grade play. Through the creative lens of improvisation, Marty learns how to adapt to a challenge without losing her authentic self. It is a lighthearted, relatable choice for ages 7 to 10 that emphasizes that you can be both a 'princess' and a scientist who loves getting dirty. Parents will appreciate the healthy model of a child navigating social expectations with humor and a growth mindset.
The book deals with identity and gender expectations in a secular, direct, and very lighthearted way. The resolution is realistic: Marty doesn't suddenly love being a princess, but she learns to enjoy the process of performance by making it her own.
An 8-year-old girl who refuses to wear skirts, loves science and nature, and is facing their first 'big' social or school obligation that feels out of their comfort zone.
This is a safe 'read cold' book. Parents might want to discuss the concept of 'improvisation' (improv) as it's a central theme in the book's resolution. A parent might see their child having a meltdown over a specific outfit for a school event or expressing deep fear that trying something new means they have to change who they are.
Younger readers (7-8) will focus on the humor and the 'gross' bug elements. Older readers (9-10) will pick up on the social dynamics of the classroom and the nuances of staying true to oneself while being a team player.
Unlike many 'tomboy' stories that end with the girl finally enjoying the 'girly' thing, Marty McGuire maintains her identity. She changes the role to fit her, rather than changing herself to fit the role.
Marty is a third-grader who prefers the 'pond life' to the 'stage life.' When her teacher casts her as the lead princess in the class play, Marty is devastated. With the help of her grandmother and a lesson in improvisation, she realizes she can bring her own personality to the role. The story follows her journey from resistance to creative ownership of the character.
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