
Reach for this book when your child has had a hard day of making mistakes, breaking rules, or struggling with big impulses that led to a 'time out' or a scolding. It is an essential tool for repair after moments of discipline, helping children understand that your love is constant and unconditional, even when their behavior is less than perfect. The story follows Plum, a lovable and exuberant dog who gets carried away by all the things she loves, leading to some messy mishaps and a brief period of being 'in disgrace.' Through Plum's experience, children aged 2 to 6 learn to navigate the heavy feelings of shame and the relief of sincere apology. It is a comforting, humorous choice for parents who want to model healthy forgiveness and reinforce the idea that a bad choice does not make them a bad person. The gentle resolution provides a safe space to discuss how we can make things right when we mess up.
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A preschooler who struggles with impulse control or 'big feelings' that result in accidental trouble. It is perfect for a child who feels deeply wounded by correction and needs to be reminded that they are still a 'good kid' even after a 'bad choice.'
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to pay attention to the 'in disgrace' scene to help the child identify the physical and emotional cues of feeling sorry. A parent who has just had a frustrating afternoon of repeated boundary-testing or a public meltdown, and wants to reconnect with their child before bed to ensure the day ends on a note of security rather than shame.
A 2-year-old will enjoy the physical comedy of Plum's antics and the simple repetition of things she loves. A 5-year-old will more deeply relate to the social-emotional aspect of the apology and the profound relief that comes with being forgiven.
Unlike many 'behavior' books that can feel clinical or preachy, this story uses the perspective of a dog to create a safe emotional distance. It focuses on the internal feeling of 'disgrace' rather than just the outward punishment, making the eventual reconciliation feel deeply earned and authentic.
Plum is a high-energy dog who loves many things: her bed, her ball, and especially her family. However, her enthusiasm often leads to impulsivity. When she allows her desires to override the rules (stealing a cushion, jumping in a pond, or snatching a birthday cake), she experiences the consequence of being 'in disgrace.' The story follows her journey from the height of excitement to the low of a timeout, ending with a heartfelt apology and the reassurance that her owners' love is the most favorite thing of all.
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