
Reach for this book when your teenager is projecting a shield of cynicism or 'too cool for love' energy to mask deeper vulnerabilities or grief. Phoebe is a sharp-witted, hilarious, and fiercely skeptical Londoner who has decided that romance is a scam, but her summer volunteering at a thrift shop challenges her defenses. The story explores the complexities of female friendship, the quiet ache of losing a grandparent, and the unexpected spark of a first queer crush. It is a brilliant choice for parents of older teens (14+) who appreciate black comedy and need a story that validates their messy, complicated, and often contradictory feelings about growing up. While the tone is irreverent, the heart of the book is a tender exploration of self-discovery and the courage it takes to be vulnerable.
Frank discussions of sexual desire, attraction, and questioning one's sexuality.
Ongoing themes of grief following the death of a grandmother.
Death of a grandparent, grief, and brief mentions of sexual health (STI testing).
A 15 or 16 year old who uses sarcasm as a defense mechanism. This is for the teen who feels alienated by the performative nature of high school romance and is struggling to reconcile their intellectual independence with their emotional needs.
This book can be read cold, though parents should be prepared for Phoebe's candid, often crude, and irreverent voice. There is a scene involving a visit to a sexual health clinic that is handled with humor and pragmatism but may be a starting point for conversation. A parent might notice their teenager becoming increasingly withdrawn, dismissive of family activities, or making biting remarks about the 'pointlessness' of relationships and social milestones.
A 14 year old will likely focus on the hilarious social commentary and the 'rebel' energy of Phoebe's voice. An 18 year old will better appreciate the nuanced exploration of grief and the way Phoebe uses her persona to hide from the pain of loss.
Unlike many YA romances that prioritize the 'spark,' this book is a character study of a skeptic. It successfully balances genuine laugh-out-loud black comedy with a raw, unpolished depiction of the messy process of growing up queer.
Phoebe is a self-proclaimed misanthrope and cynic living in London who has decided that love is a fool's errand. While her best friend becomes obsessed with a new boyfriend, Phoebe spends her summer volunteering at a local charity shop called the Dog's Trust. Through her diary entries, she navigates the grief of her grandmother's death, the shifting dynamics of her friendships, and the unexpected realization that she is falling for a girl named Emma.
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