
Reach for this book when your child is hesitant about joining a new group activity or feels overwhelmed by the pressure of performing well in front of peers. Lola is excited but nervous about starting soccer, and she quickly realizes that being part of a team is about more than just personal skill. The story gently addresses the fear of making mistakes and the importance of supporting teammates through a relatable, low-stakes lens. As a 64-page chapter book, it serves as a perfect bridge for early readers transitioning into more complex narratives. It models healthy communication and emotional regulation, showing children that even when things don't go perfectly on the field, they can still find joy and friendship. Parents will appreciate the way it validates a child's anxiety while providing a positive roadmap for overcoming it through teamwork and perseverance.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book is entirely secular and grounded in realistic, everyday experiences. It deals with anxiety and social exclusion in a direct, age-appropriate manner. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on progress rather than perfection.
A first or second grader who is a perfectionist. This is for the child who might want to quit a new hobby the moment they aren't the best in the room, or for the child who is nervous about the social 'unwritten rules' of sports.
This book can be read cold. A parent might see their child standing on the sidelines of a birthday party or practice, refusing to join in, or hearing their child say, 'I'm bad at this,' after a single mistake.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the excitement of the soccer game and Lola's nerves. Older readers (8-9) will better grasp the nuance of the social dynamics and the importance of the 'assist' over the 'goal.'
Unlike many sports books that focus on the big win, this story prioritizes the internal emotional growth and the specific mechanics of being a good teammate over the final score. """
Lola is eager to start her soccer journey, but she faces immediate hurdles with performance anxiety and understanding the collaborative nature of the sport. Throughout the story, she must learn to navigate her desire to shine individually with the necessity of playing as part of a collective unit. The narrative follows her through practice and her first game, highlighting the small social frictions and triumphs that occur in youth sports.
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