
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with intense guilt, the consequences of a major life mistake, or the feeling that they are a 'bad person' beyond redemption. It provides a vital mirror for those navigating the aftermath of unplanned teen fatherhood and the complicated emotions of accountability. Josh is living with his eccentric, martial-arts-loving uncle to escape the shame of his past. Through the disciplined practice of karate and a burgeoning friendship with the girl upstairs, he begins the grueling process of self-forgiveness. It is a raw, realistic look at male vulnerability and the slow road to healing. While the themes are heavy, the book offers a roadmap for taking responsibility while still finding a reason to move forward.
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Sign in to write a reviewDeep exploration of shame, regret, and the loss of a child through adoption.
Martial arts training and a physical confrontation with a peer.
The book deals directly and secularly with teen pregnancy, adoption from the father's perspective, and the emotional fallout of sexual choices. The resolution is realistic rather than 'happily ever after,' emphasizing that while mistakes stay with you, they don't have to define your entire future.
A high school boy who feels alienated by his mistakes or who struggles to express 'soft' emotions like grief and shame. It is perfect for the teen who needs to see that masculinity can include vulnerability and accountability.
Parents should be aware of references to the night the pregnancy occurred and the physical/emotional stress of teen parenting discussions. It can be read cold by most teens, but a parent might want to discuss the legal and social realities of adoption. A parent might see their teen pulling away, refusing to discuss a major life event, or expressing deep self-loathing. The trigger is the silence that follows a crisis.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the martial arts and the high school social dynamics. Older teens (17-18) will likely connect more deeply with the existential weight of impending adulthood and the permanence of Josh's situation.
Unlike many YA books that focus on the mother's experience of teen pregnancy, this focuses entirely on the young father's psychological aftermath, which is rarely explored with such nuance.
Josh has moved to a new town to live with his Uncle Larry after fathering a child during his junior year. The story follows Josh during his senior year as he deals with the 'not knowing' of his child's life (the baby was placed for adoption) and the crushing weight of his own perceived failure. He finds solace in his uncle's obsession with Jackie Chan movies and begins taking karate lessons with Stella, a neighbor. The plot focuses on his internal journey toward self-worth and the external pressures of starting over.
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