
A parent would reach for this book when their child comes home feeling like the odd one out or struggles with the sting of being the last person picked for a game. It is a gentle, realistic story about Lila, a girl who finds herself on the fringes of her neighborhood peer group. Rather than changing who she is to fit in, Lila uses her own creative spark to transform the landing of her apartment building into a world of imagination. Through her self-reliance, she eventually draws others into her world on her own terms. At 57 pages, this chapter book is ideal for ages 7 to 10. It provides a beautiful roadmap for building self-confidence and shows that being alone doesn't have to mean being lonely. It is an excellent choice for normalizing the difficult feelings of social rejection while modeling resilience and the power of play.
The book deals with social exclusion and peer rejection in a direct, secular, and highly realistic manner. There is no magical solution or sudden personality change: Lila remains herself throughout. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in reality.
An 8-year-old child who prefers solitary creative pursuits or who is currently experiencing a 'friendship shift' at school where they feel overlooked by the dominant social group.
The book can be read cold. Parents might want to pay attention to how David treats Lila early on to discuss the difference between being a leader and being a gatekeeper. A parent might see their child sitting alone at recess or hear their child say, 'Nobody wanted to play with me today.'
Younger readers (7-8) will focus on the fun of the games Lila invents. Older readers (9-10) will more deeply resonate with the nuances of social hierarchy and the bravery it takes to be alone.
Unlike many 'making friends' books that suggest the protagonist change their behavior to fit in, this book celebrates the protagonist's inner world as the very thing that eventually attracts others.
Lila is a young girl living in an apartment building who consistently finds herself excluded from the neighborhood children's games. David, the informal leader of the group, often leaves her out. Instead of moping, Lila retreats to the 'landing' of her building, where she engages in elaborate imaginative play, storytelling, and independent games. Her internal world is so rich and her activities so intriguing that the other children eventually become curious and ask to join her, shifting the social dynamic from exclusion to invitation.
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