
Reach for this book when your child is facing their first experience of a significant 'goodbye,' whether a beloved caregiver is leaving, a best friend is moving, or a teacher is retiring. It is specifically designed to validate the heavy, sticky feelings that come with transition. The story follows Eleanor as she navigates a lonely August after her longtime babysitter, Bibi, moves away. Written in gentle free verse, the book explores themes of grief, resentment toward 'replacements,' and the slow process of building resilience. It is a perfect fit for elementary schoolers who are sensitive to change. Parents will appreciate how it treats a child's loss with the same gravity as an adult's bereavement while maintaining a hopeful, light touch. It models how to keep a long distance connection alive while still opening one's heart to new people.
The book deals with loss and separation. The approach is direct but age-appropriate, framing the babysitter's departure as a form of grief. It is secular and realistic, showing that while things won't be the same, they can still be good.
An 8-year-old child who feels 'left behind' or is struggling with a change in their support system, such as a teacher change or a friend moving to a different school.
No specific scenes require previewing, but parents should be ready to discuss the physical distance (moving) and how it differs from other types of loss. A parent might see their child being unusually grumpy, rejecting a new caregiver or teacher, or using metaphors like 'everything is ruined' to describe their day.
Younger children (7) will focus on the humor of the 'bad' things like black spots on bananas. Older children (9-10) will resonate more deeply with the internal monologue about the difficulty of letting go and the complexity of new friendships.
Its use of free verse makes it incredibly accessible for reluctant readers while providing a sophisticated emotional vocabulary. It honors the 'small' tragedies of childhood with deep respect.
Eleanor is devastated when her babysitter and best friend, Bibi, moves away to care for her father. The story follows Eleanor through a 'bad August' as she struggles with a new babysitter who does things differently, misses Bibi's specific traditions, and eventually learns to navigate her new reality while maintaining a long-distance friendship.
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