
Reach for this book when your middle schooler begins seeking validation from teachers or mentors while pushing away from your own guidance. It is a perfect choice for the daughter who feels she can never quite live up to her mother's perceived perfection or who feels misunderstood within the family dynamic. The story follows Leslie, a young girl who idolizes her sophisticated journalism advisor while resenting her mother's seemingly mundane life and high expectations. Through a realistic and relatable lens, Bauer explores the complex shift from childhood idolization to adolescent criticism. It addresses themes of integrity, the danger of putting mentors on pedestals, and the realization that parents are multi-dimensional people with their own struggles. Ideal for ages 10 to 14, this book provides a safe space to discuss the friction of growing up and the messy process of building an independent identity.
Explores feelings of inadequacy and the pain of parent-child disconnection.
The book deals with ethics and honesty in a direct, secular manner. There are themes of social exclusion and the pressure to succeed. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on improved communication rather than a magical fix.
A middle schooler who is currently 'allergic' to their parents and looking for role models elsewhere, or a student interested in journalism and school ethics.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the ethics of journalism and why Ms. Perl's choices were problematic. No specific pages need a content warning, but the emotional tension is high. A parent might see their child being unusually secretive, critical of the parent's lifestyle, or obsessively quoting a specific teacher's advice as gospel over the parent's.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the school drama and the desire to be 'cool.' Older readers (13-14) will better grasp the nuance of the mother's character and the pitfalls of hero worship.
Unlike many 'mother-daughter' books that focus on shared hobbies, this one focuses on the intellectual and ethical friction that occurs when a child tries to differentiate themselves through a mentor figure.
Leslie is a middle school student who feels constantly overshadowed by her mother's competence and high standards. Seeking an identity of her own, she gravitates toward Ms. Perl, the glamorous and seemingly perfect advisor for the school newspaper. Leslie attempts to model herself after Ms. Perl, even when it leads to moral compromises. However, when a crisis involving a school article occurs, Ms. Perl's flaws become apparent, and Leslie's mother proves to be the steady, principled support Leslie actually needs.
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