
Reach for this book when your child is processing the lingering weight of grief, especially if they are observing a beloved grandparent or elder figure struggling with their own loss. It is a gentle, realistic window into how families heal at different speeds and how the bond between a child and a grandparent can be a source of mutual strength during hard times. The story follows Horatio as he navigates life after his father's death from cancer, while simultaneously supporting his grandfather, O.P., who is mourning the loss of his loyal dog. It beautifully captures the messiness of grief without being overly sentimental or dark. It is ideally suited for middle-grade readers who need to see that it is okay to feel sad, but also okay to find joy and humor again as they move forward with their lives.
Deals with the aftermath of a parent's death and a grandparent's depression.
The book deals directly and secularly with death (parental and pet). The approach is grounded and realistic, avoiding platitudes. The resolution is hopeful but honest, acknowledging that while the pain doesn't disappear, it becomes manageable through connection and time.
An 8 to 11-year-old child who may be feeling 'stuck' in their sadness or who feels responsible for the happiness of a grieving adult in their life. It is perfect for a child who loves animals and uses that bond as a way to process human emotions.
The book can be read cold, but parents should be prepared to discuss the specific cause of the father's death (lung cancer) if the child asks, as it is mentioned as the catalyst for the family's current situation. A parent might notice their child becoming overly protective of a grandparent, or perhaps the child is struggling to talk about a deceased parent because they fear it will make the adults around them too sad.
Younger readers will focus on the relationship with the dog and the bond with the grandfather. Older readers will better appreciate Horatio's internal conflict regarding his own growth and the complex nature of his grandfather's depression.
Unlike many grief books that focus solely on the child, this one highlights the 'double grief' of a child watching a parent or grandparent suffer, emphasizing empathy across generations.
Horatio and his mother move into a new house following the death of Horatio's father from lung cancer. Living nearby is Horatio's grandfather, O.P., who is profoundly depressed not just by the loss of his son, but by the recent death of his dog, Mollie. The narrative follows Horatio's attempts to navigate his own middle-school social life while helping O.P. find a reason to engage with the world again, eventually involving a new puppy and the realization that memory is a way of keeping loved ones close.
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