
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling with the transition to adulthood or feeling like they have to keep their true self under wraps to maintain the status quo. It is an essential read for teens who feel like they are perpetually the 'sidekick' in their friend group and are ready to step into their own spotlight. The story follows Leah Burke, a talented drummer and artist, through the high-stakes emotions of her senior year of high school. It masterfully explores the intersection of bisexuality, body image, and the anxiety of changing friendships. While the book deals with complex social dynamics and romantic discovery, it remains grounded in a realistic, secular world. Parents will appreciate how Albertalli captures the 'sharp edges' of teenage personality, Leah is not always polite or easy, which makes her growth into self-acceptance feel earned and authentic. It is appropriate for older teens (14+) due to some mature language and the nuances of navigating high school social hierarchies and evolving identities.
Frequent use of strong language including the f-word.
Teens kissing, discussions of attraction, and emotional romantic tension.
Themes of friendship drifting and the anxiety of major life transitions.
Brief mentions of high school parties where alcohol may be present.
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A high schooler who feels like they are the cynical or prickly one in their friend group. This is for the teen who uses sarcasm as a shield, struggles with being the only one in their circle who hasn't 'figured it out' yet, and needs to see that their rough edges don't make them unlovable.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful for parents to be aware that the protagonist is intentionally imperfect: she can be blunt and occasionally harsh: but this is part of her character development toward emotional maturity. A parent might notice their teen becoming increasingly withdrawn or defensive during their senior year. They might hear their child express frustration about being the 'sidekick' or feel that their child is hiding a part of their identity out of fear of disrupting their social circle.
Younger teens (14) will likely focus on the social drama and the 'will they, won't they' romance. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more deeply with the specific anxieties of leaving home, the fear of losing childhood friends, and the pressure of defining oneself before adulthood.
Unlike many YA novels that feature a 'perfect' or universally liked protagonist, Leah is refreshingly prickly and authentic. The book excels at depicting the intersection of fat acceptance and queer identity without making either of those things the 'problem' to be solved, instead focusing on the internal courage required to be vulnerable.
Leah Burke is navigating the high-pressure final months of senior year, balancing her passion for drumming and art with the complex dynamics of her tight-knit friend group. As college applications and prom loom, Leah deals with the anxiety of being bisexual and not yet out to her friends, even though she is out to her mom. When her friend group starts to fracture under the weight of new romances and old secrets, Leah finds herself falling for someone unexpected, forcing her to confront her fear of vulnerability and her tendency to push people away.
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