
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager feels like they are failing at being a teen, particularly if they feel behind their peers in social or romantic milestones. It follows seventeen-year-old Codi, a closeted wallflower who feels her life is passing her by while she hides in her basement with her best friends. When she befriends a popular boy and enters a world of parties and first crushes, she must navigate the guilt of keeping secrets from her old friends. This is a tender, secular exploration of self-acceptance and the realization that there is no right way to grow up. It is highly appropriate for high schoolers, offering a hopeful perspective on queer identity and social anxiety without heavy trauma.
Depictions of high school parties where alcohol is present.
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A 15 or 16-year-old who feels like a late bloomer. This is for the teen who feels immense pressure to have a perfect social life or romantic history and feels "behind" because they haven't had their first kiss or gone to parties yet.
This book can be read cold. It is a gentle, realistic look at teen social dynamics. Parents should be aware it involves typical teenage party settings, including underage drinking, though it is handled as a background reality rather than a central cautionary tale. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child express that they feel like a loser or a failure because they don't have the same social highlights as their peers on social media.
Younger teens (13-14) will see this as an aspirational roadmap for what high school might look like. Older teens (17-18) will likely feel a sense of relief and validation, seeing their own social anxieties mirrored and resolved.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the trauma of coming out or intense bullying, this book focuses on the universal feeling of social inadequacy. It uniquely celebrates the "wallflower" without forcing them to completely change who they are to find happiness.
Seventeen-year-old Codi Teller is a self-described wallflower who feels she is missing out on the quintessential teenage experience. While she is gay, her social isolation stems more from anxiety and a comfort-zone friendship with her two best friends, Maritza and JaKory. After crashing a party and forming a secret alliance with Ricky, a popular boy she catches kissing another guy, Codi is ushered into a new social circle. She experiences her first real crush and late-night adventures, but the double life creates a rift with her original friends. The story focuses on balancing new growth with old loyalties.
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