
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager starts expressing anxiety about their lack of romantic experience or feels left behind as their peer group begins dating. It is a lighthearted yet honest exploration of the pressure to have a perfect love story and how that pressure can complicate existing friendships. The story follows sixteen year olds Riley and Reid, who form a pact to pursue their crushes and document the process in a shared notebook. While the book captures the awkward, funny, and sometimes messy reality of high school hookups and dating, its core is about the value of genuine connection over social performance. Parents will appreciate how it handles themes of self-confidence and jealousy without becoming overly dark. It is best suited for older teens due to its frank, though not graphic, discussions of teenage romance and social dynamics in a modern Los Angeles setting.
Frequent kissing and discussions of physical attraction and hookups.
The book deals with teenage sexuality and dating in a secular, direct way. It avoids heavy trauma, focusing instead on the realistic social pressures of high school. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in personal growth rather than a fairy-tale ending.
A high schooler who feels like they are 'behind' in the dating world or who enjoys stories about the intersection of music, friendship, and first loves.
Parents should be aware there is mild language and discussions of kissing and physical attraction. It can be read cold, but serves as a great bridge to talk about the difference between social expectations and personal readiness. A parent might notice their teen feeling insecure about not having a boyfriend or girlfriend, or perhaps finding a 'secret' notebook or digital equivalent where the teen is over-analyzing their social interactions.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the 'cringe' comedy and the excitement of the crushes. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the themes of identity and the transition of childhood friendships into more complex adult dynamics.
Unlike many YA romances that focus on a single 'one true love,' this book explores the trial-and-error nature of dating multiple people and the humor found in those less-than-perfect encounters.
Riley and Reid are best friends and bandmates who feel like they are missing out on the romantic milestones their peers are achieving. They create a 'kissing pact' to help one another pursue their respective crushes: Riley’s long-time obsession Ted Callahan, and Reid’s crush on a girl at a pet store. As they navigate various dates and musical gigs, their shared notebook becomes a record of their successes and many cringeworthy failures, eventually testing the boundaries of their own friendship.
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