
A parent might reach for this book when their teen is navigating the confusing, exciting, and sometimes scary world of first crushes and self-identity, especially if they are questioning who they are attracted to. Kiss Number 8 follows high schooler Mads, who is trying to make sense of her feelings after an unexpected kiss with her best friend, a girl. Her personal journey runs parallel to the discovery of a long-held family secret that changes how she sees her parents and her own place in the world. This gentle graphic novel is a wonderful choice for teens grappling with identity, family dynamics, and the complexities of love and friendship. It provides positive representation and a starting point for conversations about acceptance.
Explores family secrets, rejection by a grandparent, and emotional confusion.
Homophobia and bullying (verbal harassment and social isolation), family conflict (specifically a parent's initial negative reaction to a child's identity), and themes of religious exclusion.
A 14-year-old who feels like they are living a double life. This is for the teen who loves their family and their traditions but fears that their evolving identity might cost them those very things. It is perfect for readers who enjoy character-driven graphic novels like those by Raina Telgemeier but are ready for more mature, complex themes.
Parents should be prepared for scenes of peer-to-peer bullying and a difficult confrontation between Mads and her father. While it can be read cold, it is a great springboard for discussing how to handle mistakes and reconciliation within a family. A parent might see their teen becoming unusually withdrawn, suddenly avoiding a lifelong best friend, or expressing anxiety about attending church or family functions.
Younger teens (13-14) will likely focus on the romantic confusion and the "mystery" of the family secret. Older teens (16-18) will more deeply appreciate the nuances of the father-daughter relationship and the critique of social and religious structures.
Unlike many coming-out stories that focus solely on the internal journey, this book masterfully weaves in a multi-generational mystery. It shows that identity is not just about the individual, but about the history we inherit and the courage it takes to break cycles of silence.
Mads is a high school junior whose life revolves around her tight-knit group of friends, her church community, and her close bond with her father. Everything shifts when Kiss Number 8 (a kiss from her best friend Cat) feels fundamentally different from the others. As Mads begins to question her sexuality, she simultaneously uncovers a hidden family history involving an estranged relative. The narrative follows her through the fallout of coming out, the pain of social rejection, and the eventual discovery of a broader, more inclusive community.
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