
Reach for this book when your child starts showing interest in 'crushes' or expresses anxiety about a change in their routine at home, such as a new babysitter. It provides a safe, humorous space to explore the fluttery feelings of a first attraction while validating the importance of trust and safety with caregivers. In this installment of the Little Sister series, Karen Brewer is surprised to find that her new babysitter is a boy named Toby. What begins as skepticism quickly turns into a major crush. As Karen tries to impress Toby, she navigates social awkwardness and the realization that even 'big kids' are just people who are there to help. This is an excellent choice for early elementary readers transitioning to chapter books, offering a gentle mirror for the growing pains of childhood and the dynamics of a blended family.
The book features a blended family (Karen lives between two houses), which is treated as a secular, normalized reality. The approach is direct and realistic, showing a healthy co-parenting dynamic without making it the central conflict.
A second or third grader who is beginning to notice 'cute' peers or older kids and needs a story that treats those feelings with respect rather than mockery. It's also perfect for a child who is nervous about a male caregiver or a new sitter.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful to be prepared to discuss the boundaries between a child and a babysitter, as Karen's crush is innocent but provides a good opening for safety conversations. A parent might notice their child acting unusually performative or 'showy' to get someone's attention, or perhaps the child has expressed confusion about why they feel 'butterfly-y' around a certain person.
Younger readers (7) will focus on the humor of Karen's antics. Older readers (9) will likely identify more strongly with the 'cringe' factor of the crush and Karen's desire to be seen as more mature than her siblings.
Unlike many 'first crush' books that focus on peers, this explores the common childhood experience of crushing on an older caregiver, handling it with the signature Scholastic warmth that prioritizes safety and family structure.
Karen Brewer's regular babysitter is unavailable, leading her father and stepmother to hire Toby, a local boy. Karen is initially resistant but quickly develops an intense crush on him. The story follows her attempts to gain his attention and her internal struggle with these new, exciting, and sometimes embarrassing feelings. It concludes with Karen accepting Toby as a friend and reliable caregiver.
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