
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with feelings of isolation or is beginning to question the prejudices they have inherited from their environment. It is an essential resource for parents of teens who are navigating the transition to independence or who need to develop a deeper, more nuanced empathy for the LGBTQ+ community. The story follows fifteen-year-old Elle as she moves into her own apartment and forms an unexpected bond with her neighbor, Frank. As Elle discovers that Frank is a transgender man, she is forced to confront her own biases and the cruelty of those around her. The book handles themes of identity, loneliness, and social justice with a realistic touch that resonates with the 14 to 18 age group. It is an excellent choice for fostering open conversations about gender identity and the courage required to stand up for others, even when it is socially difficult.
Themes of parental abandonment and extreme loneliness.
Includes a scene where a character is physically assaulted due to their gender identity.
Medical emergency and hospitalization. Depiction of transphobic harassment and verbal prejudice (presented as behavior for the protagonist to overcome). Abandonment by a parent (Elle being forced to live alone at fifteen).
A teenager who feels like an outsider or who is currently deconstructing the prejudices of their upbringing. It is perfect for a reader who appreciates realistic, gritty fiction and is ready to explore the complexities of being an ally.
This book can be read cold by most teens, but parents may want to be prepared to discuss the scenes where Elle's peers are openly hostile toward Frank so they can help contextualize the importance of standing up against bullying. A child expresses confusion or makes a judgmental comment about someone's gender identity, or a teen is struggling with a high-conflict relationship with their parents and seeking independence.
Younger teens (14) will likely focus on Elle's newfound independence and the novelty of living alone. Older teens (17-18) will more deeply engage with the ethical dilemmas of social loyalty and the nuances of the gender identity themes.
Unlike many books that focus solely on the coming out process of a protagonist, this story focuses on the perspective of an outsider learning to be an ally. It honestly portrays the process of unlearning prejudice, making it a vital tool for building empathy.
Fifteen-year-old Elle is moved into her own apartment by her mother, who is struggling to cope with Elle's behavior and personality. Living alone for the first time, Elle befriends her neighbors, specifically a kind man named Frank. When Elle discovers Frank is a transgender man, she initially reacts with confusion and prejudice, mirroring the societal biases she has been raised with. The story follows her journey as she unlearns these biases, faces the social consequences of her friendship, and learns what it means to be a true ally when Frank faces a medical crisis and discrimination.
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