
Reach for this book when your child feels left behind by their peers or is frustrated that they haven't reached a common developmental milestone. Whether it is a slow-to-wiggle tooth or being the last one to ride without training wheels, this story speaks directly to the anxiety of social comparison. Josie is a high achiever in many areas, yet she feels like a failure because she is the only one in her class who hasn't lost a baby tooth. It is a comforting, realistic look at the preschool and elementary school pressure to grow up fast. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's impatience while providing a gentle perspective on how everyone develops on their own unique timeline. It is an excellent tool for shifting the conversation from what a child cannot do yet to celebrating who they are in the present.
The book is entirely secular and grounded in realistic fiction. It deals with the minor but developmentally significant stress of social exclusion based on physical maturity. The resolution is realistic and hopeful.
An elementary student who is highly competitive or observant of their peers and feels a sense of shame or 'lateness' regarding physical growth or hit-and-miss milestones like losing teeth or losing training wheels.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful to be ready to discuss the different things the child is already good at, just like Josie's monkey bar skills. A parent might see their child looking in the mirror with a frown, or hear them say, 'Everyone else in my class already has [X] and I don't.'
Younger children (4-5) will enjoy the physical humor of Josie trying to make her tooth move. Older children (6-8) will relate more deeply to the social dynamics of the classroom and the 'tooth charts' often found in early elementary grades.
Unlike many tooth books that focus on the Tooth Fairy or the 'magic' of the event, Mann focuses on the internal struggle of the child who is still waiting for the magic to start.
Josie is a capable, active young girl who takes pride in being first: first to finish a book, second fastest runner, and queen of the monkey bars. However, her confidence is shaken by her stubborn baby teeth. While her classmates show off gaps and visit the school nurse for tooth envelopes, Josie's teeth remain firmly in place. After trying various humorous and unsuccessful methods to speed up the process, she eventually experiences her first wiggle and the eventual loss of a tooth, but the focus remains on her emotional journey through the wait.
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