
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is navigating the complex waters of gender transition, particularly when facing the anxiety of being seen by family members after a period of absence. This story centers on Jess, a trans girl, and her best friend Chunk as they embark on a road trip to her father's wedding. It explores the profound vulnerability of living authentically and the essential role of loyal friendship in surviving family dynamics that range from supportive to dismissive. Suitable for older teens, the book offers a realistic look at identity, self-worth, and the courage required to claim one's place in the world. Parents will appreciate how it balances the weight of personal identity with the levity and growth of a classic coming of age journey, providing a mirror for trans youth and a window of empathy for their peers and family.
A scene involves a potentially dangerous encounter with strangers while traveling.
Explores romantic attraction and the complexities of changing feelings within a friendship.
Emotional abuse (transphobia and deadnaming by a parent), intense body image struggles and disordered eating, and brief instances of harassment.
A 16 or 17 year old who is navigating their own transition and feels the heavy weight of "performing" for family members who knew them before. It is also perfect for the teen who relies heavily on a "ride or die" best friend to navigate social anxiety.
Parents should be aware of the depiction of Jess's father, whose behavior is frequently dismissive and hurtful. The book can be read cold, but parents may want to discuss the secondary plot involving Chunk’s body image to ensure the reader feels supported in that area as well. A parent might reach for this when their child expresses fear or dread about an upcoming family event, or if the child has shared that they feel a parent or relative only loves a "version" of them rather than their true self.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the adventure of the road trip and the loyalty of the friendship. Older teens (17-18) will more deeply internalize the nuances of Jess's autonomy and the complex, often messy reality of parental forgiveness.
Unlike many road trip novels that focus solely on the protagonist, this book gives significant weight to the platonic soulmate (Chunk), exploring his internal life and making the story a dual study of identity and the enduring power of unconditional friendship.
Jess, a transgender girl, and her best friend Chunk set off on a road trip from California to Chicago for Jess's father's wedding. This is the first time Jess will see her father since she began her medical transition. The journey is a physical and emotional trek that tests their friendship, explores Chunk's own insecurities, and culminates in a high stakes family reunion where Jess must confront her father's past rejection and his current attempt at reconciliation.
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