
You would reach for this book when you notice your child is performing an activity for your benefit rather than their own, or if you suspect they are hiding a hidden talent because it does not match the family's traditional interests. Jenny's father is a 'tennis nut' who is determined to pass his passion on to his daughter, but Jenny struggles to find joy on the court. While she wants to please her dad, she eventually finds the courage to show him that her true heart and skill lie in gymnastics. This gentle chapter book is perfect for children ages 6 to 9 who are navigating the pressure of extracurricular expectations. It models how to have a difficult conversation with a loved one and emphasizes that being 'good' at something is most rewarding when you actually enjoy doing it. It is a wonderful tool for parents to signal that they value their child's unique identity over any specific sport or hobby.
The book deals with the pressure of parental expectations in a secular, realistic way. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in healthy communication.
An elementary schooler who feels like the 'odd one out' in a family of athletes or musicians, or a child who is afraid to tell their parents they want to quit a specific lesson or team.
No specific previewing is needed. The book can be read cold, though it works best if the parent is ready to listen to the child's own 'gymnastics' (whatever their hidden interest may be) after finishing. A parent might feel a pang of recognition if they have recently caught themselves pushing a child too hard in a sport, or if they have seen their child's face fall when it is time for a specific practice.
Younger children (6-7) will focus on the physical contrast between the 'boring' tennis and the 'exciting' gymnastics. Older children (8-9) will better grasp the nuance of Jenny's internal conflict regarding her father's feelings.
Unlike many modern 'follow your dreams' books, this 1970s gem focuses specifically on the parent-child hobby gap. It is refreshing because the father is not a villain, just an enthusiast who needs a reminder to see his daughter as an individual.
Jenny's father, an avid tennis enthusiast, buys her a brand new racket and takes her to the courts for lessons. Despite his coaching, Jenny is clumsy and disinterested. The tension builds until Jenny leads her father to the backyard to demonstrate what she is actually good at: gymnastics. After seeing her impressive flips and balance, her father realizes his mistake and supports her true passion.
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