
Reach for this book when your middle-schooler is beginning to feel the crushing weight of social status and the fear of being left out. It is a compassionate mirror for the child who feels they aren't 'cool' enough and might be tempted to stretch the truth to save face. Janet Hamm is terrified of being the only girl without a date for the big seventh-grade dance, so she invents a glamorous boyfriend from out of town. As the dance approaches, her small lie snowballs into a stressful web of deceit. This realistic school story explores the intersection of self-esteem and integrity, showing that the anxiety of maintaining a lie is far more painful than the initial embarrassment of being single. It is a perfect choice for ages 9 to 12 to normalize the awkwardness of early adolescence.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with social hierarchy and peer pressure in a secular, direct manner. There are no heavy traumas, but the social stakes feel life-or-death to the protagonist. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on social repair and self-acceptance.
A 10 or 11-year-old who is starting to value the opinions of their classmates over their own comfort, or a child who struggles with 'saving face' after making a mistake.
Read cold. The book is straightforward and age-appropriate with no controversial content, though it captures 1980s social dynamics (which remain surprisingly relevant today). A parent might notice their child becoming unusually secretive about school events or making grandiose claims about their social life to impress others.
Younger readers (9) will see it as a cautionary tale about lying. Older readers (12) will deeply resonate with the specific, cringey dread of social rejection.
Unlike modern 'mean girl' tropes that focus on bullying, Bunting focuses on the internal struggle of the protagonist. Janet isn't a victim of others as much as she is a victim of her own expectations.
Janet Hamm, a self-conscious seventh grader, feels intense pressure to have a date for the upcoming school dance. To avoid the perceived stigma of being dateless, she invents 'Danny,' a fictitious older boyfriend. The narrative follows Janet as she navigates the mounting complications of her deception, including her friends' curiosity and the logistical nightmare of 'Danny' never appearing. Eventually, the truth comes out, leading to a moment of vulnerability and genuine connection with her peers.
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