
Reach for this book when you need to have a serious, nuanced conversation with a teenage son about the difference between being a good person and doing a good thing. It is an essential tool for deconstructing the dangerous myth of the well intentioned predator and exploring how self-delusion can mask harmful behavior. The story follows Keir, a popular high school football star who considers himself a gentleman, yet commits a horrific act of sexual violence against a friend. Because the narrative is told entirely from Keir's perspective, it challenges readers to see through his justifications and recognize the reality of non-consensual encounters. This is a heavy, sophisticated read for older teens (15 and up) that prioritizes accountability and the internal logic of the perpetrator over a traditional victim-centric narrative. It is best used as a catalyst for deep discussions on consent, boundaries, and the social structures that protect popular boys.
The narrator constantly justifies his harmful actions and lacks remorse.
Heavy themes of betrayal, trauma, and the destruction of a friendship.
Depictions of underage drinking and graduation parties.
A graphic and disturbing depiction of sexual assault/rape.
The book centers on date rape and sexual assault. The approach is direct but filtered through the protagonist's massive wall of denial. It is a secular, realistic exploration of a crime where the resolution is purposefully uncomfortable and ambiguous, as Keir never fully realizes the gravity of what he has done.
A mature 16 or 17-year-old who is beginning to navigate adult relationships and needs to understand that 'nice guys' are capable of harm. It is particularly effective for young men who are immersed in sports or 'bro' culture.
Parents must read the entire book first. The scene of the assault is intense and requires immediate context. This book should never be read 'cold' without a plan for follow-up discussion. A parent might see their child making excuses for a friend's bad behavior or using 'good intentions' to justify crossing a boundary.
A 14-year-old might be overwhelmed by the narrator's unreliable voice, while an 18-year-old will better grasp the social commentary on toxic masculinity and the legal/social ramifications of Keir's actions.
Unlike many YA books on this topic, this is told from the perspective of the rapist who believes he is innocent. It is a masterclass in the unreliable narrator and a unique tool for teaching empathy vs. accountability.
Keir Sarafian is a high school senior, a star athlete, and a beloved son who prides himself on his 'good guy' reputation. On graduation night, he attempts to comfort his friend Gigi, but his version of 'comfort' turns into a brutal sexual assault. The novel is a chilling first-person account of Keir's refusal to accept the reality of his actions, even as the world around him begins to hold him accountable.
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