
Reach for this book when your child is acting as the emotional anchor for a family in transition, or when they are using a hobby as a refuge from stress at home. It speaks directly to the child who feels they must be the strong one while their parents separate, highlighting the quiet burden of maintaining a perfect exterior during internal turmoil. The story follows Emily, a young dancer who wins a coveted role in a professional production of The Nutcracker just as her father leaves the family home. It beautifully captures the intersection of personal triumph and private grief. This short chapter book is perfect for middle-grade readers, offering a realistic look at how children process divorce through the lens of their own passions and responsibilities.
The book deals with parental separation and maternal depression. The approach is realistic and secular. It does not shy away from the mother's inability to cope, making the resolution feel earned and hopeful rather than magical. It acknowledges that while the family structure has changed, the child can still find joy in their own life.
A 9 to 11-year-old child who is high-achieving or deeply involved in extracurriculars (dance, sports, art) and is currently navigating a divorce or family crisis. It is specifically for the child who tends to hide their feelings to protect their parents.
Parents should be aware that the mother in the book is depicted as briefly emotionally unavailable due to her own grief. It is a good idea to read this alongside your child to reassure them that their only job is to be a kid. A parent may see their child becoming overly compliant or 'too perfect' in response to stress. You might notice your child retreating into their activities or acting more like an adult than a kid.
Younger readers will focus on the excitement of the ballet and the sadness of the dad leaving. Older readers will pick up on the nuanced pressure Emily feels to manage her mother's emotions.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on the conflict between parents, this focuses on the child's internal pressure to remain successful and stable while their foundation is shaking.
Emily is an aspiring ballerina who is thrilled to be cast in a professional production. However, her joy is overshadowed by the sudden departure of her father and the subsequent breakdown of her mother's emotional stability. Emily finds herself balancing rigorous rehearsals, schoolwork, and the role of caregiver for her younger brother and struggling mother. The story follows her journey through the performance season as she learns that she doesn't have to carry the weight of her family's happiness alone.
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