
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling with body image, family expectations, or the feeling that they must change who they are to achieve their dreams. It is an ideal choice for parents of kids who feel 'too much' for their surroundings or are navigating the tension between traditional cultural values and modern self-expression. The story follows Skye Shin, a talented Korean American girl who enters a televised K-pop competition. While she is a brilliant dancer and singer, she faces systemic fatphobia, particularly from her own mother, who believes Skye must be thin to be successful. It is a vibrant, contemporary story for ages 13 and up that tackles heavy themes of beauty standards and parental pressure with a resilient, joyful spirit. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's right to occupy space and pursue excellence exactly as they are.
Sweet, age-appropriate teenage romance and kissing.
Emotional distress caused by a strained mother-daughter relationship.
This book depicts significant emotional verbal abuse and fatphobia, primarily from a parent. There are also mentions of eating disorders and restrictive dieting common in the entertainment industry.
A 14 year old who feels at odds with their family's expectations regarding their weight or size. This is for the teen who loves K-pop or performance but feels they don't 'fit the mold' of what a star looks like.
Parents should be prepared for the intensity of the mother's fatphobia, which is pervasive and harsh. It is helpful to read this alongside your teen to discuss how to separate personal worth from societal or parental beauty standards. A parent might reach for this book after hearing their child express deep insecurity about their body, or after a conflict where the parent realized their own comments about weight were damaging their relationship with their child.
Younger teens will focus on the 'making it' aspect of the competition and the romance. Older teens will more deeply process the nuance of the toxic mother-daughter dynamic and the systemic nature of the beauty industry.
Unlike many stories about body image that focus on weight loss as a resolution, Skye remains fat and proud throughout. It is a rare, unapologetic story featuring a fat, queer character who is proud of her body and her talent within the specific cultural context of K-pop.
Sixteen year old Skye Shin enters a global K-pop competition in Los Angeles, determined to prove that her talent outweighs the industry's narrow beauty standards. She faces constant pushback from producers and other contestants due to fatphobia and discrimination, but her greatest obstacle is her own mother's critical voice. Along the way, she finds community, navigates a budding romance with a fellow competitor, and fights for her place on the stage.
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