
A parent would reach for this book when their child expresses frustration about living between two households or feels like they have no say in their own schedule. This story follows nine year old Amber Brown as she navigates the complexities of joint custody, specifically the feeling that she is a piece of property being passed back and forth rather than a person with her own needs. Through humor and relatable internal monologue, the book explores themes of self esteem, identity, and the anger that often accompanies divorce. Appropriate for ages 8 to 12, it is an excellent choice for families in the midst of transition. Paula Danziger uses Amber's witty, honest voice to validate the messy emotions of shared parenting. Parents might choose this to help their child articulate their own feelings or to show them that their struggle for autonomy and belonging is a normal part of growing up in a blended or divorced family.
Deals with the emotional strain and sadness resulting from parental divorce.
The book deals directly with divorce and joint custody from a secular perspective. The approach is very grounded and realistic. There is no magical reconciliation of the parents; instead, the resolution is hopeful in that it focuses on Amber’s personal growth and her ability to communicate her needs to her parents.
A 9 or 10 year old who is struggling with the logistics of divorce. Specifically, the child who feels 'stuck in the middle' and is starting to resent the back and forth travel between homes.
This book can be read cold, but parents should be prepared for Amber's blunt honesty about her parents' flaws. It may lead to direct questions about the parent's own custody arrangement. A parent might see their child acting out or becoming unusually quiet when it is time to switch houses. They might hear their child say, 'It's not fair that I have to move all my stuff again.'
Younger readers (8-9) will relate to Amber’s specific frustrations with her belongings and schedule. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of her identity crisis and the search for autonomy.
Unlike many divorce books that focus on the initial split, this focuses on the long-term 'new normal' and the specific psychological toll of being 'jointly owned.'
Amber Brown is dealing with the reality of joint custody. Her father has moved back to the area, and now Amber must split her time exactly in half. She feels like a piece of luggage or a prize in a contest rather than a child. The story follows her as she navigates school life, friendships, and the tension of her parents' differing rules and expectations, ultimately seeking a way to feel like she belongs to herself.
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