
Reach for this book if your teenager is struggling with the weight of being a first generation American or feeling suffocated by family expectations while processing a personal loss. It is a raw and honest look at the friction between traditional cultural values and the desire for individual autonomy, making it a powerful choice for families navigating complex identity issues. The story follows Julia, a sharp tongued and ambitious high schooler who feels invisible next to the memory of her perfect sister, Olga, who died in a tragic accident. As Julia uncovers secrets about Olga, she also confronts her own mental health and the generational trauma within her Mexican American family. Parents should be aware that it deals directly with heavy topics like depression and attempted suicide, but it is ultimately a story of resilience and finding ones own voice. It is an essential read for opening honest conversations about mental health and the reality that no child is, or should be, perfect.
Realistic teenage profanity throughout.
Teenage sexual exploration and discussions of desire.
Deals with severe clinical depression and a detailed suicide attempt.
The book takes a very direct, secular approach to mental health, including a visceral depiction of a suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization. It also deals with the trauma and fear associated with undocumented status and the border crossing experience, as experienced by some characters. The resolution is realistic rather than neatly tied up, offering hope through therapy and self-acceptance.
A 16-year-old girl who feels like the black sheep of her family.
Parents should definitely preview the middle section involving Julia's suicide attempt and the descriptions of her hospital stay. It is a cold read for mature teens, but parents may want to be ready for deep talks about clinical depression. A parent might see their child becoming increasingly cynical, withdrawing from family traditions, or expressing that they can never do anything right in the eyes of their mother or father.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the mystery of Olga's secrets and the teen romance, while older teens (17-18) will likely connect more with the themes of systemic poverty, cultural displacement, and the terrifying transition to adulthood.
Unlike many YA novels that romanticize the sisterly bond, this book explores the resentment and complexity of living in a sibling's shadow, paired with a brutally honest depiction of the challenges of navigating cultural expectations and identity as a Mexican American teen in Chicago. """
Following the sudden death of her sister Olga, Julia is left as the only child in a traditional Mexican American household. While her mother, Amá, projects her grief and cultural expectations onto Julia, Julia discovers that Olga may not have been the saintly, perfect daughter everyone believed. The story follows Julia as she investigates Olga's secret life while battling her own deepening depression and fighting for a future as a writer in New York City.
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