
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the 'win at all costs' mentality or becomes overly aggressive, tearful, or angry during competitive play. It is a vital tool for children who have difficulty managing their emotions when things don't go their way on the field or in the classroom. Howard the rabbit is an enthusiastic soccer player, but his competitive streak often leads to poor choices, like hogging the ball or getting angry at teammates. Through his journey to the finals, Howard learns that true winning involves being a supportive friend and playing with heart. This story is perfectly calibrated for children ages 4 to 8, providing clear behavioral modeling that translates abstract concepts like 'sportsmanship' into concrete actions.
The book deals with everyday social-emotional hurdles in a secular, direct manner. There are no heavy themes like death or trauma; the focus is entirely on behavioral regulation and peer relationships.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn elementary student (K-2) who is highly athletic but often 'benches' themselves emotionally by losing their temper or excluding others during recess or organized sports.
Read the 'Tips for Parents and Educators' in the back of the book first. They provide excellent scaffolding for the discussion points Howard encounters. A parent who just watched their child throw a tantrum after losing a board game, or who received a note from a coach about their child not being a 'team player.'
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the slapstick nature of Howard's mistakes and the clear 'red light/green light' behaviors. Older children (7-8) will recognize the more nuanced social consequences of being a 'sore loser' or a 'poor winner.'
Howard B. Wigglebottom books are unique for their 'Lessons in Life' approach that uses exaggerated character mistakes to make lessons feel safe and humorous rather than preachy.
Howard B. Wigglebottom is a high-energy rabbit who loves to play soccer but struggles with the social-emotional aspects of competition. He hogs the ball, gets frustrated with teammates who make mistakes, and focuses entirely on the score. When his team makes it to the finals, Howard has to choose between his ego and his team. He eventually learns that being a 'good sport' means supporting others and enjoying the game regardless of the outcome.
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