
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with perfectionism, the need to control their environment, or the realization that friendship requires flexibility rather than force. It tells the story of Amari, a self proclaimed expert in the very delicate art of walking ants. Through whimsical and slightly chaotic instructions, the story explores the trial and error of interacting with the natural world and the tiny creatures within it. Parents will appreciate the way it gently addresses the frustration of things not going according to plan. It is ideal for children aged 4 to 8 who are learning that sometimes the best way to connect with others is to stop leading and start listening. It is a beautiful, watercolor-drenched reminder that companionship often happens when we let go of our rigid expectations.
Brief moments of loneliness and the frustration of failure.
The book features a brief, humorous, and highly metaphorical 'funeral' for an ant that dies. The approach is secular and focuses on the child's perspective of loss and ritual. The resolution is hopeful as it leads to a new human connection.
A highly imaginative 6-year-old who loves making up elaborate rules for games and might feel discouraged when peers or pets don't follow their specific 'script.'
The book can be read cold, but parents should be ready for the page featuring the 'Black Veil' and the ant funeral, which is more quirky than macabre but may prompt questions about what happens to bugs. A parent might see their child trying to micromanage a playdate or becoming distressed when a pet or insect doesn't behave like a toy.
Younger children (4-5) will delight in the absurdity of putting an ant on a leash and the vibrant illustrations. Older children (7-8) will better grasp the irony of Amari's 'expertise' and the social lesson of compromising with a new friend.
Unlike many 'how-to' parodies, Derby's use of experimental watercolor and mixed media creates a dreamy, slightly messy atmosphere that perfectly mirrors the unpredictable nature of childhood play.
Amari is an expert at walking ants, and she has a nine-step guide to prove it. The book follows her through the process of finding, equipping, and leading an ant on a leash, but nature has other plans. After several failed attempts and a surprising funeral for an ant, Amari meets a fellow bug enthusiast and learns that a shared experience is better than a controlled one.
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