About This Book
Reach for this book when your child's enthusiastic displays of affection are leading to 'oops' moments with friends or siblings. It is an essential tool for the child who loves to hug but needs help recognizing that not everyone wants to be touched all the time. Through the metaphor of a prickly pufferfish, the story introduces the concept of body autonomy in a way that feels playful rather than scolding. The book follows a group of sea creatures who discover that their pufferfish friend literally 'puffs up' when he is hugged without warning. It beautifully balances the idea that while hugging is a wonderful thing, it must be consensual to be enjoyable for both parties. Parents will appreciate how it validates the child's desire to be kind while providing clear, actionable steps for asking for permission. It is a gentle, humorous guide to social boundaries for preschoolers and early elementary students.
