
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling to bridge the gap between who they are in private and who they feel they must be in public. This powerful memoir in verse follows Tony through his high school and college years as he navigates the complex intersections of Black masculinity, academic pressure, and his emerging queer identity. It is a raw and honest look at the 'boogeymen' of self-doubt and societal expectation that haunt many young people before they find their voice. Parents will appreciate how the book models the transformative power of the arts, specifically spoken word poetry, as a tool for healing and self-actualization. Due to its mature themes, including explorations of sexuality and systemic racism, it is best suited for older teens aged 14 and up. It provides a vital mirror for those feeling 'othered' and a window for parents looking to understand the internal landscape of a child fighting for the courage to be their authentic self.
Exploration of queer identity and first relationships.
Themes of isolation and the struggle to accept one's true self.
Experiences of systemic and interpersonal racism, references to the crack epidemic's impact on the community, and depictions of homophobia.
A 16 year old boy who feels like he is living two different lives, perhaps someone who excels in sports or academics but feels a deep, unspoken disconnect between their public persona and their internal truth. It is perfect for the student who finds solace in journals or lyrics but is afraid to share them.
This book can be read cold by most older teens, but parents should be aware that it deals honestly with the pressures of hyper-masculinity and the fear of rejection. Reading a few of the poems together can spark deep conversations about authenticity. A parent might reach for this after seeing their teenager withdraw emotionally, or perhaps after hearing their child express that they don't feel like they truly fit in anywhere, despite their outward success.
For younger teens, the focus will likely be on the general feeling of wanting to fit in and the excitement of discovering a new talent. Older teens and college-aged readers will more deeply resonate with the specific challenges and triumphs he experiences as a Black, queer man.
Unlike many memoirs that focus solely on the trauma of the closet, this book centers the specific power of spoken word poetry as a catalyst for coming out. It uniquely frames the internal critic as a boogeyman, making abstract psychological struggles tangible and conquerable through art.
Tony Keith Jr. presents a memoir in verse that traces his journey from a closeted high school basketball player to a celebrated spoken word poet. The narrative explores his struggle to reconcile his experiences as a Black student at a predominantly white institution, his academic ambitions, and his sexuality. The story follows his internal battle with the boogeymen of shame and silence until he finds liberation through performance art.
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