
Reach for this book when your child expresses anxiety about a school event centered on family, or if they feel like their family structure doesn't match the traditional norm. Arnie is a young dog who loves his school, but he feels deeply lonely when Grandparents' Day is announced because he doesn't have grandparents to invite. While his peers are excited, Arnie must navigate feelings of being left out and different from his classmates. This gentle story follows Arnie as he realizes that while he may lack biological grandparents, he is surrounded by a rich network of 'chosen family' in his community. From the local librarian to the neighborhood bakers, Arnie discovers that love and mentorship come in many forms. It is an excellent choice for children in non-traditional families, those who have experienced loss, or families living far from relatives. It provides a warm, secular way to discuss community bonds and the idea that family is defined by who shows up for you.
The book deals with the absence of family members. The approach is realistic and secular. It doesn't explicitly state why the grandparents are missing (death, estrangement, or distance), making it versatile for many situations. The resolution is hopeful and empowering.
A child aged 4 to 7 who feels 'different' during school holiday celebrations, particularly those in foster care, those who have lost grandparents, or children in military families living far from kin.
This book is safe to read cold. Parents might want to prepare a list of their own 'chosen family' members to discuss with the child afterward. A child coming home from school with a flyer for a family event and saying, 'I don't have anyone to bring,' or 'Why don't I have a grandma like Sam?'
Preschoolers will focus on the colorful animal characters and the fun of the party. Elementary-aged children will more deeply feel Arnie’s social anxiety and the relief of finding a solution to his problem.
Unlike many 'grandparent books' that focus on the bond itself, this book focuses on the absence of that bond and how community can fill the gap. It validates the child's sadness rather than rushing past it.
Arnie is a student at Lassie Lower School who becomes increasingly anxious as Grandparents' Day approaches. Unlike his classmates, Arnie doesn't have grandparents to bring to the celebration. He spends the book reflecting on the special adults in his life: Mrs. Childs the librarian, Coach Ed, and Bill and Dottie from the bakery. He eventually realizes he can invite these community mentors to be his 'honorary' grandparents, leading to a joyful and inclusive school celebration.
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