
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to feel confident in their own skin or when they seem hesitant to embrace their unique interests for fear of standing out. It is a perfect choice for kids who feel a bit 'ordinary' and are watching a vibrant mentor figure navigate a world that doesn't always understand them. The story follows Keats and his family on a cross-country RV road trip accompanied by their fabulous, creative, and unapologetically himself male nanny. As they travel from farm country to Las Vegas, the family faces the Manny's own struggle for acceptance during a visit to his childhood home. Through humor and heart, the book explores themes of self-confidence, identity, and the bravery required to be authentic. It is a lighthearted yet meaningful read for ages 8 to 12 that celebrates finding one's voice through the power of unconditional support.
The book addresses identity and non-conformity directly. The Manny's flamboyant nature and his struggle with his conservative parents are handled with a secular, realistic approach. The resolution is hopeful, emphasizing that while you can't change others, you can find respect and integrity by being yourself.
A middle-grade reader who feels like an observer in their own life, perhaps someone who is 'middle of the road' and looking for the courage to express a hidden interest or personality trait.
Parents should be prepared to discuss why the Manny's parents are unsupportive. It is a great opening to talk about how different families have different levels of acceptance regarding identity. A parent might notice their child downplaying their talents or changing their behavior to fit in with peers, or perhaps the child has expressed confusion about why someone else is 'different.'
Younger readers (8-9) will enjoy the slapstick road trip antics and the RV setting. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of the Manny's relationship with his parents and the internal growth Keats experiences.
Unlike many 'be yourself' stories, this one uses a mentor-student dynamic where the adult is also still learning and hurting, making the message of bravery feel more grounded and less preachy.
Keats is a self-conscious boy who finds himself on a family road trip in a rented RV. Along for the ride is the family's 'Manny,' a flamboyant and spirited male nanny who serves as Keats's mentor. While the trip is full of humor and fashion 'Glamour-dos,' the heart of the story occurs when they visit the Manny's childhood home. There, the Manny faces his own parents' lack of acceptance, forcing Keats to reconcile his desire to be 'normal' with the beauty of the Manny's authenticity.
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