About This Book
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the 'keeping up with the Joneses' mentality that often emerges during birthday season. It is particularly helpful for kids who feel embarrassed by their family's budget or who are facing social competition from a peer with more material resources. The story follows Herbie and his best friend Ray as they try to plan a ninth birthday party that can compete with a wealthy classmate's flashy event. Through humor and relatable school-day scenarios, the book emphasizes that creativity and genuine friendship are more valuable than expensive party favors. It is a gentle, realistic look at social dynamics in the third grade, making it an excellent choice for normalizing feelings of jealousy and financial anxiety while modeling resourceful problem solving and loyalty.
