
Reach for this book when your teenager is navigating the complex intersection of their heritage and their personal identity, especially if they are struggling with the fear of disappointing their family. This contemporary novel follows Nishat, a Bengali Muslim girl who comes out as a lesbian and faces a painful disconnect with her parents. While she deals with the tension at home, she enters a school business competition where she finds herself in direct rivalry with her crush, Flavia, who has started a competing henna business. Through themes of cultural appropriation and self advocacy, the story offers a realistic look at the pressures of high school and the bravery required to live authentically. It is a poignant, high school level romance that provides a safe space to explore the nuances of tradition versus individuality without easy or hollow answers.
Themes of parental rejection and the feeling of being an outsider in one's community.
This book depicts instances of homophobic bullying, including a scene where a character is "outed" to the school community without their consent. It also depicts the emotional distress of parental rejection and explores the harm of cultural appropriation, specifically the pain and anger Nishat experiences when Flavia profits from henna after Nishat is shamed for it.
A 14 or 15-year-old who feels caught between their cultural background and their personal identity, especially a reader who is looking for a story that validates the difficulty of being the first in a family to challenge traditional expectations.
Parents may want to preview the scenes involving school-wide bullying and the specific moment Nishat's parents initially reject her coming out, as these are emotionally charged. The book can be read cold, but it is best paired with an open door for discussion about tradition and unconditional love. A parent might notice their child becoming withdrawn after a family gathering or expressing fear that expressing their identity or interests will cause conflict within the family.
A younger teen (13) will likely focus on the high school rivalry and the romantic tension between Nishat and Flavia. An older teen (17 or 18) will more deeply resonate with the nuanced critique of cultural appropriation and the complex, unresolved nature of the family dynamics.
This novel stands out for its refusal to offer a "magic fix" for family rejection. It portrays Nishat's experiences as a South Asian Muslim queer teen with immense honesty, focusing on how she finds joy and pride even when their support system is imperfect.
Nishat is a Bengali Muslim teenager living in Ireland who comes out to her parents, only to meet a wall of silence and denial. When a school business competition begins, Nishat launches a henna stall to celebrate her heritage, but she is shocked to find her crush, Flavia, doing the same. The rivalry between their businesses highlights issues of cultural appropriation and racism within their school. Nishat must navigate her feelings for Flavia while standing firm in her cultural identity and dealing with the emotional fallout of her parents' rejection.
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