
Reach for this book when your teenager is navigating the intensity of first love while simultaneously struggling with their mental health or a potential eating disorder. It is an essential resource for parents whose children are learning that love cannot fix illness, but support can make recovery possible. The story follows Nick and Charlie as their relationship deepens during a school trip and the summer holidays. While the romance is central, this volume focuses heavily on Charlie's journey with anorexia and OCD. It offers a compassionate, realistic roadmap for how to support a partner or friend through a health crisis without losing oneself in the process. It is best suited for older middle schoolers and high schoolers due to its honest depiction of self-harm and disordered eating. Parents will appreciate the healthy modeling of communication, therapy, and the involved, supportive roles of the adults in the boys' lives.
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Sign in to write a reviewOccasional mild British profanity (e.g., bloody, pissed).
Sweet, age-appropriate depictions of kissing and emotional intimacy.
Focuses on anorexia, OCD, and the emotional toll of mental illness.
Disordered eating (anorexia), self-harm (referenced and briefly shown as scarring), OCD, and clinical depression.
A teenager who is struggling with their own body image or mental health, or a teen who is supporting a friend through a serious illness and needs to see that setting boundaries is a healthy part of love.
Parents should be aware of the scenes depicting Charlie's internal struggle with food and the honest conversations about self-harm. The book is best read alongside a parent or with an open line of communication, particularly regarding the professional medical steps the characters take. A child mentions they are worried about their friend's eating habits, or a parent notices their teen is becoming increasingly anxious and isolated due to a partner's crisis.
Younger teens (12 to 14) will focus on the emotional loyalty and the fear of being separated from a loved one. Older teens (15 to 18) will likely resonate with the complex dynamics of therapy, the nuance of clinical diagnoses, and the responsibility of caretaking.
Unlike many YA novels that use mental illness as a plot device for drama, Oseman provides a clinical, responsible roadmap for recovery. It uniquely balances the joy of a queer relationship with the heavy reality of health struggles, proving that neither negates the other.
Volume 4 follows the evolving relationship between Nick and Charlie as they face the reality that love, while powerful, cannot cure mental illness. The narrative shifts from the initial flush of romance to a deeper, more complex phase where Charlie must seek professional help for an eating disorder (anorexia) and OCD. The story details Charlie's admission to a treatment facility and the emotional toll on Nick as he learns how to be a supportive partner without taking on the role of a healthcare professional.
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