
Reach for this book when your child is facing a looming 'big day' and is paralyzed by the fear of making a public mistake. Whether it is a dance recital, a school play, or a sports game, this story addresses the specific stomach-turning dread that comes with performance anxiety. Harriet, an adorable dog, loves dancing but is terrified of the upcoming recital, imagining every possible disaster from tripping to losing her costume. Nancy Carlson masterfully normalizes the physical and mental experience of stage fright for children aged 4 to 8. By following Harriet through her practice and eventual performance, children see that bravery is not the absence of fear, but doing the thing you love even when your knees are shaking. It is a perfect choice for building emotional resilience and celebrating the pride that follows a difficult challenge.
This is a secular, realistic look at anxiety. The approach is direct and relatable, with a hopeful and successful resolution that validates the child's effort.
A first or second grader who has been practicing a skill (like piano, karate, or dance) but is suddenly expressing a desire to quit because they are afraid of the audience.
Read this cold. The illustrations of Harriet's 'disaster' dreams are funny and help lighten the mood, providing a good opening to ask, 'What is the silly thing you're worried might happen?' A parent might see their child crying before a practice, claiming their tummy hurts, or stating 'I'm not going' regarding a scheduled event.
For a 4-year-old, the focus is on the funny animals and the 'boo-boo' fears. An 8-year-old will deeply identify with the social pressure and the internal monologue of self-doubt.
Unlike many 'first performance' books that focus on the glamour of the stage, Carlson focuses heavily on the internal 'what-if' catastrophic thinking that characterizes childhood anxiety.
Harriet is a young dog who loves her ballet class, but as the spring recital approaches, she is consumed by anxiety. She imagines various 'worst-case scenarios' like falling off the stage or her leotard ripping. Despite her fears, she attends the rehearsals and eventually the big night. When she finally performs, she realizes that she remembers her steps, and the joy of dancing outweighs her fear.
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