
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is navigating a major shift in family dynamics, specifically regarding a parent coming out as transgender. This sensitive novel follows twins Yabsira and Yonas as they process the news that their father is transitioning to live as a woman. Beyond the central theme of gender identity, the story explores the weight of keeping family secrets and the challenge of maintaining individual identities within a high-achieving Black family. It is a compassionate choice for middle and high schoolers who feel caught between loyalty to their parents and their own need for honesty. Parents will appreciate how it models a realistic, messy, yet ultimately loving path toward a new family normal.
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A teenager who values family loyalty but feels overwhelmed by the pressure of keeping family secrets. This is perfect for a reader who is observant, perhaps a bit of a perfectionist.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss the difference between privacy and secrecy, as the characters spend much of the book navigating when and how to share their family's new reality with the outside world. A parent would choose this book after hearing their child express frustration about "everything changing" or witnessing their child withdraw emotionally following a major family disclosure or transition.
Younger readers (ages 12 to 14) will likely focus on the twins' social anxieties and the fear of being "different" at school. Older readers (16 to 18) will better appreciate the nuanced exploration of gender, the complexities of the parents' marriage, and the intersectional experience of being a high-achieving Black family.
Unlike many stories that focus solely on the individual transitioning, this book centers on the siblings and the domestic ripples within a specific cultural context. It expertly balances the father's journey with the children's right to their own complicated feelings, all while portraying a middle-class Black family with depth and specificity. """
Twins Yabsira and Yonas are navigating their high-pressure sophomore year in a successful Black family when their father comes out as transgender. While their father, now going by the name Deb, begins the transition to living as a woman, the siblings struggle with the sudden shift in family dynamics, the burden of a secret they aren't ready to share, and their own diverging ways of coping with change.
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