
Reach for this book when your teenager is on the cusp of a major life transition, such as leaving for college or moving away, and is beginning to see their family members as complex people with their own histories. This beautifully layered novel follows eighteen-year-old Jess as she prepares to leave for France, framed by the stories her family shares during her farewell party. Through these vignettes, the book explores the hidden sacrifices, secret loves, and deep-seated grief that shaped previous generations. A parent might choose this book to help a young adult process the bittersweet nature of growing up and moving on. It deals honestly with historical class struggles, religious prejudice between Catholics and Protestants, and the impact of losing a sibling. While it touches on heavy themes like disability and death, it ultimately provides comfort by showing how family bonds endure through time and change. It is a sophisticated read for ages 12 and up that encourages empathy for the adults in a child's life.
Includes stories of courtship, secret marriages, and teenage attraction.
Deals with the death of a sibling (Danny) and the grief of the surviving family members.
The book handles death with a direct, realistic lens. Danny’s death is treated with profound tenderness but without sentimentality. The religious conflict between Catholics and Protestants is depicted through the social prejudice of the era. These resolutions are realistic: some bridges are built, while other scars remain.
An introspective 14 to 16-year-old who enjoys historical fiction or family sagas. It is perfect for a teen who feels a bit like an outsider in their own family and is looking for a deeper connection to their roots.
Read the chapter 'The Buffer Girl' to discuss the limited career options available to working-class women in the 1930s and the potential for exploitation in industrial jobs. The book can be read cold, but knowing it is set in industrial Sheffield adds helpful context. Parents may find the chapter regarding Danny's life and death emotionally taxing, as it captures the exhaustion and devotion of raising a child with profound needs and the vacuum left by their passing.
Younger teens will focus on the 'rebellious' stories of the parents and the romance, while older teens will appreciate the themes of legacy and the weight of the secrets Jess is keeping.
Unlike many YA novels that focus solely on the protagonist, this is a true ensemble piece that treats the older generation's lives with as much agency and passion as the teenager's. """
The story begins with 18-year-old Jess preparing to leave her home in Sheffield for a university year in France. During a family gathering, the narrative shifts through time to tell the stories of her parents and grandparents. It covers her grandparents' secret interfaith marriage in the 1930s, her grandmother's life as a 'buffer girl' in the steel industry, her father's rebellious youth, and the short, impactful life of her disabled brother, Danny.
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