
Reach for this book when your middle schooler begins navigating the murky waters of social media, shifting friendship loyalties, and the subtle shift from childhood to adolescence. It is an essential read for parents of children who are starting to feel the pressure of their digital footprints or who are struggling to maintain their sense of self as their peer group changes. The story follows Bridge and her two best friends as they enter seventh grade, exploring the complexities of new romantic interests, the ethics of photo-sharing, and the lingering effects of childhood trauma. Stead masterfully captures the 'middle' of middle school where kids are no longer children but not quite adults. Through multiple perspectives, the book addresses the 'betrayal of the self' that often happens when trying to fit in. It provides a safe space to discuss digital consent and the importance of having a personal 'purpose.' It is a sophisticated, compassionate choice for 10 to 14-year-olds facing the social complexities of the modern world.
Discussion of crushes, first kisses, and the social pressure of dating.
Bridge reflects on a near-death accident and her recovery process.
The book handles the aftermath of physical trauma through Bridge's experiences following a car accident (direct and realistic). It deals with emerging sexuality and the 'sexting' culture of middle school (metaphorical/age-appropriate but honest). The resolution is realistic and hopeful, emphasizing restorative justice and loyalty over shame.
A thoughtful, observant 12-year-old who enjoys 'puzzle' narratives and is starting to notice the shifting social hierarchies and digital risks of their peer group.
Parents should be aware of the subplot involving a character ditching school to avoid the fallout of a suggestive photo. It is a great conversation starter about digital permanence. A parent hears their child worrying about a 'private' photo being shared or witnesses a sudden, unexplained rift in a long-term friendship group.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on Bridge’s cat ears and the 'Tech Crew' friendships. Older readers (13-14) will more deeply resonate with the second-person cautionary tale regarding social media and reputation.
Unlike many 'mean girl' tropes, Stead focuses on the internal struggle of maintaining integrity. The non-linear, multi-perspective structure elevates it above standard realistic fiction. """
Set in Manhattan, the story follows Bridge, Tab, and Em, friends since fourth grade. As they enter seventh grade, Bridge (a survivor of a near-fatal accident) wears cat ears as a silent protest against conformity, while Em deals with the attention of boys and Tab joins the Human Rights Club. A parallel second-person narrative follows an older girl who has made a devastating social mistake. The threads converge around a 'photo scandal' involving Em and a boy she likes, testing the girls' bond.
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