
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to forge their own identity while living in the shadow of a sibling, particularly if that sibling has passed away. It is a compassionate choice for children who feel they must become a replica of someone else to earn parental love or maintain a family legacy. Wally's journey through grief is complicated by his desire to master his late brother Jonnie's favorite sport, skateboarding, leading to a poignant exploration of self-worth versus imitation. While the book features a ghost, it is firmly rooted in realistic fiction and the psychological process of mourning. It addresses the heavy weight of comparison and the jealousy that can exist even after someone is gone. This is a 150-page chapter book suitable for independent readers aged 8 to 12 who are ready for a thoughtful, character-driven story about finding one's own voice and letting go of the need for perfection.
Includes descriptions of skateboarding stunts and the risks involved.
Deals with the death of an older sibling and parental grief.
The book deals directly with sibling death and grief. The approach is realistic and secular, despite the presence of the ghost, who functions largely as a psychological manifestation of Wally's internal dialogue and memories. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in self-acceptance.
A 10-year-old boy who feels 'average' and is tired of being compared to a more successful or charismatic sibling. It is also perfect for a child who uses sports or physical activity to process complex emotions.
Parents should be aware that the book mentions the accident that led to the brother's death (a bicycle-car collision). It is helpful to discuss the difference between healthy tribute and unhealthy imitation before reading. A parent might see their child avoiding their own interests to try and please the parent by picking up a deceased or 'favorite' sibling's hobby.
Younger readers will focus on the 'cool factor' of the ghost and the skateboarding action. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Wally’s identity crisis and the mother's paralyzing fear of loss.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the immediate aftermath of death, this story examines the 'long tail' of mourning, specifically the identity vacuum left behind when a 'hero' sibling dies.
Wally is a middle-schooler struggling with the death of his vibrant, daring older brother, Jonnie. Jonnie begins appearing to Wally as a ghost, offering advice and encouragement as Wally tries to master the dangerous skateboarding tricks Jonnie was known for. As Wally trains for a local competition, he realizes that his mother's overprotectiveness and his own feelings of inadequacy are holding him back. Ultimately, Wally must decide if he is skating to honor Jonnie or to prove something to himself.
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