
Reach for this book when your child begins questioning their place within the family or is struggling to process a loved one's unpredictable mental health. This deeply moving verse novel follows eleven-year-old Makeda, a Black girl adopted by white parents, as she moves to a new city and navigates the 'invisible' feeling of being the only person of color in her household. It is an essential choice for families looking to validate the complex reality of transracial adoption and the burden children often carry when a parent is unwell. While the book touches on heavy themes like racial identity and maternal depression, it does so through Makeda's poetic and resilient voice. It is most appropriate for readers ages 10 to 12 who are ready for nuanced discussions about race and family dynamics. This story offers a mirror for children in similar situations and a window for others to build profound empathy for those whose family lives are multifaceted and sometimes difficult.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts a parent's severe mental health crisis and a child's resulting emotional distress.
The book addresses racism and mental illness directly and realistically. The mother's mental health episodes are depicted with raw honesty. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, acknowledging that love doesn't always fix everything, but community and self-identity help.
A middle-schooler who feels like an outsider or who is navigating 'adult' problems at home. It may particularly resonate with children navigating predominantly white environments who are experiencing feelings of isolation.
Parents should preview the scenes where the mother's mental health causes her to act out or neglect Makeda's emotional needs. It is best read alongside a child to facilitate conversations about the characters' experiences with racism and mental health. A parent might see their child withdrawing, acting out from 'perfectionist' pressure, or expressing feelings of difference or isolation related to their racial identity within the family.
Younger readers (age 8-9) will focus on the sadness of the move and the mother's illness. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the systemic nuances of the microaggressions Makeda faces and the complexity of her adoption.
Unlike many adoption stories that focus on the 'forever family' joy, this book bravely explores the 'fog' of adoption and the challenges faced by the transracial family in the story, without sugarcoating the experience. """
Makeda is an eleven-year-old girl who feels like a 'beige girl in a world of color' despite being Black. Her world is uprooted when her family moves from Maryland to New Mexico. She must navigate a new school where she is one of the only Black students while her adoptive mother's bipolar disorder becomes increasingly volatile. Makeda uses poetry and letters to her 'Georgia Mama' (her birth mother) to process her isolation.
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