
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling to balance the heavy weight of family expectations with the desire to forge their own path, particularly in environments where they feel like an outsider. This story follows Ellen Sung, a Korean American high school senior in a predominantly white Minnesota town, as she navigates her final year of high school. It is a powerful exploration of the pressure to excel academically, the pain of overt and subtle racism, and the quiet courage required to speak one's truth. While the book addresses difficult themes including racial slurs and intense parental pressure, it serves as an essential mirror for children of immigrants and a window for those seeking to understand the nuances of the Asian American experience. It is a realistic, grounded, and ultimately empowering choice for mature middle schoolers and high school students who are beginning to question the status quo and find their own voices in a complicated world.
Depicts a first romance, including some kissing and dating themes.
Deals with the emotional weight of isolation and heavy parental pressure.
The book deals directly and realistically with racism, including the use of specific racial slurs. It addresses the emotional toll of strict, high-stakes parenting and the isolation Ellen experiences as a result of the racism she faces. The approach is secular and deeply grounded in the 1990s contemporary reality. The resolution is hopeful but realistic: Ellen finds her voice, but the systemic issues of her town remain.
A high school student who feels caught between two worlds, or a teenager who is a 'people pleaser' learning that setting boundaries is a necessary part of growing up.
Parents should be aware of the inclusion of racial slurs (the n-word and anti-Asian slurs) which are used by antagonists to illustrate the reality of the character's environment. Pre-reading the confrontation scenes at the gym or school dances is advised. A parent might see their child withdrawing from social situations or showing extreme anxiety over a 'B' grade, or hear their child describe a 'joke' from a peer that was actually a microaggression.
Younger readers (12-13) may focus on the school drama and the romance, while older readers (16-18) may also connect with Ellen's struggle to define her own path in the face of conflicting expectations.
This book offers a raw and honest portrayal of the Midwestern immigrant experience that feels timeless despite its 1990s setting. """
Ellen Sung is a high school senior in the small town of Iron River, Minnesota, where she faces both high academic pressure from her parents and racial taunts from peers. The story follows her journey through gymnastics, a burgeoning romance with a white classmate named Tom, and the eventual realization that she cannot remain silent in the face of prejudice if she wants to live authentically.
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